Tuesday, July 15, 2008

I Don't Shop at Wal-Mart

This has nothing to do with a ban against large corporations taking over the world or anything. I am a small business owner and try to support such BUT I just like Target better. We have one nice Wal-Mart in my area -several Wal-Mart stores, they are just dirty, unorganized and in general a mess - so if I need a Wal-Mart, I go to the nice one. I will say Wal-Mart is better for schools supplies. So I forced my children to help me with their supply list today. OK - I know it is July 15th so we still have a month. But we have this week, next week is camp (so they can't help) and then vacation so I wanted to get it out of the way. And - I think I will go this time every year bc I found every item I needed in one store even found good pencils which were already sharpened. Last year we had to sharpen about 100 pencils so this is a big deal to me. I've tried to order supplies online to avoid all this but they are still young enough to need very specific things which I can't find online.

What else did I find?

  • A kid riding a bike with a live bird on his shoulder - what is that about?
  • A non-english speaking lady sending money to another country - she clearly didn't understand anything that was being said or going on. I hope her money got there. I feel like that will be us in Thailand unless we get moving on some Thai conversation lessons. I'm still on Lesson 1.
  • A lady attempting unsuccessfully to talk sense to her 7 year old - oh wait - that was me - I finally realized he was grumpy due to hunger setting in, cracked open a box of peanut butter crackers and he was fine - although he thought I would be arrested for eating before buying.
  • Way too many employees - seriously - what are they all doing? They weren't helping me find the 13 section accordion organizer in a boy's color. Are they getting paid to make sure I don't pocket the 11 cent glue sticks? Open a register already, work weekends or go clean the other Wal-Marts in this city.
  • A very very slippery floor - I'll only wear tennis shoes from now on to my once a year trip to Wal-Mart. Apparently, the employees buff and wax the floor when they aren't stalking glue stick thieves. I don't think I broke anything.
  • A lot of angry moms giving me the evil eye for buying all the note cards on 3 rings in stock. Ok - they were thinking, "Why is she buying all that stuff already? It just causes them to put it out earlier every year." Perhaps, but I'm thankful I don't have to shop for it on vacation.

I have learned that while my kids hate it when I force them to do things like this, they are so much nicer to me after I make them "work" a little. They are good kids and it's times like these I am reminded. Matt declined the colored note cards saying, "I think people just buy them to show off bc kids ooh and aah over them Mom." Mark, who was in a great mood after eating, gave me a hug and thanked me for getting all his stuff.

Thursday, July 10, 2008

5 Months Since We Pushed the Button




















I find it hard to believe it's been 5 months since we applied to adopt. Although Matt just said, "It's only been 5 months?" So I guess in ways, life flies by and in other ways, it seems like we've been talking about Little M forever. No doubt, she's always on our mind.

Other thoughts flying through my mind?

  • Cannot believe our referral moved up 4 months
  • Will it move up again or back after the next set of referrals
  • Can't believe how fast Mark learned to ride his bike and how good he is already
  • How big Matt smiled after seeing Mark ride - He was so proud of Mark
  • Can't understand why Mark won't just pull the tooth hanging from a thread
  • Really need to finish the laundry
  • Wish Lori and I lived in the same city - here or Cali (although I think we'd both pick Cali) - we have too much fun and too much in common to only see each other twice a year!
  • How old Nick is getting
  • Have a huge list of things to do so I better type fast
  • What color should I paint Matt's room
  • What color should I paint Mark's room
  • What color should I paint Little M's room
  • Should I paint or just wait
  • Why did the boys move all the toys around and mess up their closets and rooms
  • Should I list all this stuff on Craigs List or donate it
  • How excited I am for all the people who are traveling to Thailand, getting referrals, coming home, etc.
  • I really want to wing-it on vacation and that's really driving me crazy. I'm not sure if I can just chill out with no plan
  • Have I always had OCD and just recently accepted it
I better get moving! After spending a lot of time with Lori this week, it's time to buckle down and take care of administrative stuff around this house.

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

List is Moving FAST!


OMG - We need to get ready for a little girl!

6 referrals were issued in June so we are now around #21 on the list and were told to expect a referral in 14 months rather than 18 months. SOOOOO - if that happens, we could have a Thai Christmas! Whether that be spending Christmas in Thailand or actually getting home with our completed family before Christmas!

This is what we hoped for! Can't believe it. Going fast!